In general, on Vista, 'User Account Control' should be turned off during the initial install of NetBeans and any time you wish to run the Plugin Manager.
If you had tried updating while 'UAC' was turned on, such an erroneous update may have corrupted the NetBeans installation. In this case:
Note: Step 3 above may not be necessary if all the modules of interest do not update themselves globally (i.e in the installation directory). But the above set of steps is the only sure-fire way to solve this problem.
See http://www.netbeans.org/issues/show_bug.cgi?id=127174
http://www.netbeans.org/servlets/BrowseList?list=nbusers&by=thread&from=825880
http://www.nabble.com/Re%3A-Exceptiong-installingUML-plugin-again.-p14581460.html